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What happens when schools don't protect from bullying?

When you’re in school, you’re supposed to be safe. This doesn’t always prove to be true.

Between classes, in the locker room and on the bus ride home, you might be the target of bullying. If the instigators at your school are especially cruel, they might intrude on your home life, continuing to torment you through text messages or on Facebook.

Bullying is nothing new. Neither is suicide as a result of bullying, despite the recent avalanche of media pointing to a rising trend. School students, particularly gay ones, didn’t suddenly this fall start killing themselves because they were being harassed.

But when high-profile cases – like Rutgers freshman Tyler Clementi and 15-year-old  Phoebe Prince – brought other instances of bullying-related suicide into the national spotlight, the issue at large came with it. School districts have begun to rethink how they address bullying. And the federal government has begun to think how it deals with schools that don’t address it.

In his contribution to “It Gets Better,” the YouTube project to confront the bullying of gay youths, President Barack Obama said, “We’ve got to dispel this myth that bullying is a normal rite of passage, that it’s some inevitable part of growing up. It’s not.”

Other, less likely groups have decried anti-gay bullying. “We have all witnessed tragic deaths across the country as a result of bullying or intimidation of gay young men,” said Michael Otterson, managing director of public affairs for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, at a news conference. “We join our voice with others in unreserved condemnation of acts of cruelty, or attempts to belittle or mock any group or individual that is different — whether those differences arise from race, religion, mental challenges, social status, sexual orientation or for any other reason.”



School districts across the country have also begun readdressing the way they deal with bullies and the bullied. But how far they go is a point of debate. The Huffington Post recently reported on the struggles by Minnesota’ s Anoka-Hennepin School District, which is reviewing its policy on bullying after a gay student’s suicide. On the one hand, gay-rights supporters say that an anti-bullying program must specifically address harassment of gay students in order to work. On the other hand, religious groups say that doing so would support the notion that being homosexual is acceptable.

Chuck Darrell of the Minnesota Family Council told the Post, “We believe the bullying policy should put the emphasis on the wrong actions of the bullies and not the characteristics of the victims.” Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network director Eliza Byard disagrees. “Policies have to name the problem in order to have an impact,” she said.

Cyberbullying provides another wrinkle to the issue. A study at Iowa State University found that 54 percent of gay, lesbian and transgender students have been picked on through the Internet after they got home from school. Of those, 45 percent said they experienced depression, and 26 percent experienced suicidal thoughts.

The Department of Education made it clear that the bullying of students “who fail to conform to sex stereotypes” violates Title IX, a federal law governing sex discrimination. This law governs educational opportunities and is often discussed in connection with athletics, but has roots in school bullying and harassment. Title IX sprang from the women’s movement of the 1970s, itself an offshoot of the civil rights movement of the 1960s. One of the many catalysts in the push for civil rights was the threats of violence against black students who wanted to attend white schools in the South.
The Denver Post reported that schools have limited authority to protect students from cyberbullying without infringing on students’ rights to free speech. But they can step in “if there is a potential for violence, if the speech significantly interferes with a student’s ability to participate in school, or if it significantly interferes with school operations,” Nancy Willard, director of the Center for Safe and Responsible Internet Use, told the Post.

Schools face penalties

Schools are making efforts nationwide. But when those efforts fall short, they may now lose federal funding.

In an announcement on Oct. 26, Secretary of Education Arne Duncan clarified that U.S. sex discrimination laws, known as Title IX, also protect students who “fail to conform to sex stereotypes.” Schools that don’t adequately protect from bullying risk violating Title IX.

“We must get directly involved,” Duncan told reporters, “when bullying crosses a line and becomes discriminatory harassment.”

What do you think?

What can schools do to protect students from bullying? Should bullying policies specifically address gay, lesbian and transgender students who are bullied? Should cyberbullying be addressed? If so, how? Do you agree that schools that fail to address bullying violate sex discrimination laws? Is bullying a problem at your school? If so, how is it addressed? Join the discussion!
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5/9/2012
Green Bay Wi
Ladi
Braid
There is a girl who has been bullying other in the school now that is becoming a issue the school seems to be covering it up. What should we do

4/30/2012
Imperial/Ca
Stephanie
Mrs. Ross/Frank Wright Middle School
bullying is so wrong i dont even know how people can wake up everyday proud of what they do and dont care how bad it hurts people.................i havent really seen someone get bullied really bad or at all but if i ever i want to make sure to stop it

3/22/2012
Fort Walton Beach,Florida
Onelia
W.C. Pryor Middle School
There's this girl at my school. Her and I always get bullied at school and probably many others,but i only know and see of us two and it's mainly her.. People always talk about how big she is and call her fat,ugly,nasty,stinky,etc. it gets worse. Her and I were just talking on Fb and she said she goes home and cries everyday and she said if she killed herself she thinks it would make EVERYTHING better. I told her it wouldn't and not to hurt herself over bullying,but i don't know how well i'm helping her.. /: and I feel really bad for her :( i'm in tears now because of what she told me.. I just DON'T know what to do or say to keep her from hurting herself..

12/21/2010

Andrew
Sidney High School, Sidney, MT.
I think people these days need to just grow up.i dont see why people let the stupid things other people say get to them. who cares what others say. i think kids need to learn how to just blow stuff off. im not sayin those that bully shouldnt stop because i think the same about them. they need to grow the #$%@ up and stop thinkin the so big and bad because most the time they arent. those that bully are just people trying to hide there own problems by creating issues for someone else.people that arent strong enough to hold there head high and pround pick on those that are. people these days are rather imature and its sad to see. people on both sides the bully and the victim need to grow up and move on.

12/13/2010

Jill
La Place/Centennial, Columbus/Ohio
As someone who has seen and experienced bullying in school, I agree the Government's involvement on this issue should be mandatory. However, I do not see a practical and effective way for the government's involvement. Due to the major amount of students in America's school systems and the minority of this issue in comparison to others, it seems unlikely that the Governemnt can and will take action. Further, the rights of the bullyers' must be considered; rights such as free speech. Rather than promoting the Governent's involvemnt, we should be carving a clear and distinct path for change in ths issue, whether or not that includes help from the Governemnt.

12/6/2010

Berton
mrs. Berty/Trinity, Washington/PA
i believe that bullying is a big issue and schools need to adress it more. what the federal government is starting to do is the right thing.

12/6/2010

Alyssa
Trinity , Washington, PA
Bullying is a major issue in today's United States schools. Before reading this, i was never aware suicide could be involved. Parents should enforce their children to treat others the way they would want to be treated, and I believe some of these problems may decrease.

12/6/2010

Berton
Mrs.Berty/Trinity, Washington/PA
Bullying is a major issue and needs to be adress. the federal governemnt is making the right steps to stop bullying

12/1/2010

Giselle
Bradley/Nimitz, Irving, TX
The reason schools usually don't stop bullying is because they don't know about it. Most of the kids that get bullied don't let anybody know that they are getting bullied or that it affects them until somebody finds a suicide note and it's already too late. School can enforce the consequences of bullying, because suspension, or detention is not enough, students actually enjoy that. Schools should ask teachers to pay closer attention to their classroom and students to make sure nobody is being abusive to anybody else. Almost all schools have the rule, “Treat others like you would want to be treated,” but a lot of schools don't enforce that rule which leads to more bullying and more suicides. Bullying policies should definitely address gay, lesbian, and transgender students because they are the ones who get bullied the most. I have never experienced cyberbullying and I don't know how someone could bully over the internet but it happens and a percentage of the bullied kids who commit suicide have been bullied through the internet. Just like the consequences for bullying in school, there should be the consequences for cyberbullying as well. It might be harder to catch bullies on the internet but not impossible. I do think that schools who don't address bullying violate discrimination laws. I don't understand how a school can't address bullying, it's one of the major problems in schools. It's hypocritical of a school to say they don't allow bullying yet they don't enforce the rules against it. If you aren't doing anything about bullying when you say you are then that's violating discriminatory laws. I haven't seen much bullying occur in my school, but of course I know it happens. Teachers and administrators don't say much about bullying, the main problem they do address is attendance.

11/9/2010

Arron
Wess/NCHS, New Castle, IN
Bad things happen. Most school shootings happen because the kids involved were bullied.

10/29/2010

Allie
Mr.Frank/Northeast High School, Philadelphia, PA
I believe that bullying is the cruelest type of hate, especially when young adults act upon other young adults. I feel this way because being a teenager and coming out of your norm and facing reality and who you are becoming is difficult to begin with, having people torment them only makes things harder. Teens go through many different stages, having bullies harass and question your race, sexuality and beliefs can really effect a person mentally and causes them to react physically, not just fighting but hurting others and most of all themselves. There should be a more strict policy on bullying, especially in schools. A way to maybe prevent bullying is to gather students together and have meetings, lectures and support groups to discuss the how problematic and dangerous bullying is and what it leads to in some cases. That is what how i feel about bullying.

10/29/2010

David
Mr Frank, Northeast High School, Philadelphia, Pa
I think that bullying is one of the biggest problems kids face in school. I don't even know why students face this problem at all. Because I think school should be really strict about this issue, that is a really cruel crime. In some cases, kids might even try to face and live with it. But in other cases, kids get scared and don't even wanna go to school anymore, because they are afraid to face bullying, and afraid that it will never stop. In other cases,

10/29/2010

David
Mr Frank, Northeast High School, Philadelphia, Pa
I think that bullying is one of the biggest problems kids face in school. I don't even know why students face this problem at all. Because I think school should be really strict about this issue, that is a really cruel crime. In some cases, kids might even try to face and live with it. But in other cases, kids get scared and don't even wanna go to school anymore, because they are afraid to face bullying, and afraid that it will never stop. In other cases,

10/29/2010

David
Mr Frank, Northeast High School, Philadelphia, Pa
I think that bullying is one of the biggest problems kinds face in school. I think that school should be really strict about this issue, which is a really cruel crime committed by sometimes teenagers or even adults. I don’t even know why kids have to face this problem because bullying is something that should not be happening at all. In some cases, kids try to face it and live with it. In other cases, kids are afraid even to go to school because they feel unsecure in school and no one does anything about it. Also, when bullying gets to their home life it gets worse because they feel like this will never end and they try to do something themselves to end this. They feel like they are alone and sometimes really bad things happen, like sometimes they commit suicide or they try to kill whoever is bullying them. So I think school must do something to prevent bullying so things like this won’t happen.

10/29/2010

Ana R.
Mr.Frank/Northeast High school, philadelphia PA
I think bullying is one of the biggest issues in the U.S high schools. I know how it feels to be bullied because my friend, she was new to Northeast high school and she also was new to this country so she was bullied by some girl.She told her parents and her parents had to come in to talk to the principal and the bullied was stopped.I think this bulling thing is about students hating on each other.And teachers dont really know that much whats going on around the school so what i think is that teachers and the principal also should be more aware whats going on in school. And the goverment should have like a kind of punishment of students who try to be a bully in school.By doing these things i guess that the bullying will stop.

10/29/2010

Ana R.
mr>frank/ northeast high school , philadelphia Pa
I think bulling is one of the biggest issues in U.S.A high schools. This happens for different reasons like students hate on each others.I know how it feels to be be bullied because my friend has been throw it. She had to bring her parents in to talk to the principal and the bully was stopped. The reason that this happens is that the teachers dont know to many things whats going on around the school. What i think is that the teachers and also the pricipal and the school stuff should be more aware whats going on around the school,the government should also have a kind of punishment for students who try to be a bully.

10/28/2010

Ayanna
Mr.Frank/Northeast High, Philadelphia,PA
I think bullying have became a major issue in the U.S. The rise of bullying has increased extremely especially in school. I do not think it is fair for someone to afraid to go home or afraid to go to school. This is an issue among all races especally in middle school and high school. This issue affects people everyday and they have to live without being happy with theirself. The people being affected is only waiting to be helped but waiting patiently and silently.

10/28/2010

Amanda V.
Mr. Frank/ NEHS, Philadelphia
In my opinion bullying is a huge problem in all our schools these days. After reading this article I never realized that students would actually commit suicide because that's how bad it was. I know that situation because I've been bullied before when I was younger but I told my parents and teachers so the bully was stopped. In my opinion I think it is time that all parents teach their kids to tell them what is going on at school or even out of school. Parents need to step up and so do schools and teachers. The schools and teachers need to be more aware of what is going on with the students and the government needs to do something about these bullies. In my opinion we need to take control and watch all these children because we never know who might be a bully.

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